A Family Of Three We Will Be



What’s with people already pressuring me to have another baby after this one?!


Short answer for everyone: hopefully never.


I say hopefully because I’m well aware of the fact that many end up conceiving naturally (oops) after using fertility treatments for their first. I will definitely take precautions (FAM is my preferred method) and I keep telling Alex just to go back on TRT which predictably tanks his sperm count. I understand that shit happens and I don’t want to lock myself into a ‘never’ which is the same as me refusing to take on a label… whatever it may be. Locking yourself into such a definitive decision is agreeing to take on a fixed mindset on a subject. Something I avoid at all costs.


With all that said, there are some major deciding points that leaned me in this direction.