What's Wrong With Trying To Save People?
๐๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด, ๐๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ท๐๐บ๐ฝ ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป ๐๐ผ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ๐ปโ๐ ๐๐๐ถ๐บ?โฃ
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We all have been in that position before, ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐ข๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ท๐ฆ๐ด. If you keep sacrificing, then eventually there wonโt be anything left of you to give. โฃ
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๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ผ๐๐ป ๐น๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐โ๐น๐น ๐ฏ๐๐ถ๐น๐ฑ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ธ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ ๐ต๐ฒ๐น๐ฝ.โฃ
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You can only control yourself and your actions, ๐ด๐ฐ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ธ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ญ๐ช๐ฎ๐ช๐ต๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ด, and you need to communicate those boundaries with others. โฃ
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๐๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐บ๐ป ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฝ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐ถ๐๐.โฃ
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If you are used to saving others, then those boundaries may need to be extra firm in the beginning to minimize and to let others know that you can no longer save them at your own expense. โฃ
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Over time, you can start to be more flexible with your boundaries, communicating them to others but allowing for ๐ช๐ฏ๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ when appropriate.โฃ
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๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ปโ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ปโ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ, ๐๐ผ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐.
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