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Why Are People So Easily Offended?



People losing their shit over jokes about the lunacy of this week need to ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ฌ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ด. โฃ

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Taking everything literal, personally, and being a fucking emotional wreckโ€”is a repellent for most people. Humor and what people find amusing says a lot about their life outlook, attitude, and unique life perspectives. It also will show you their weak spots in their psyche. โฃ

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๐—ข๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ? You have an inferiority complex and think the world needs to operate around your comfort. Narcissism defined.โฃ

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๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ถ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜บ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ข ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ด. โฃ

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People that get upset and take things personally are most definitely not individuals I want as friends. Itโ€™s not conducive to my happiness and Iโ€™m not wired up to seek approval at the cost of my personal integrity. โฃ

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They can go find someone else to vet their unhealthy psychological patterns. Iโ€™m not that person and never will be. โฃ

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๐—ž๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ. โฃ

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I donโ€™t sugar coat my words to spare feelsโ€” I never have been one of those. The weak ideological zealots fall to the wayside with this tactic alone. They are averse to hearing any feedback that doesnโ€™t confirm their biases.


I'll leave you with one of my favorites from Don Miguel Ruiz's classic:โฃ


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๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—™๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—”๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€โฃ

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Whatever happens around you, donโ€™t take it personallyโ€ฆ โฃ

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Nothing other people do is because of you. โฃ

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It is because of themselves. โฃ

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All people live in their own dream, in their own mindโ€”they are in a completely different world from the one we live in. โฃ

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When we take something personally, we make the assumption that they know what is in our world, and we try to impose our world on their world.โฃ

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Even when a situation seems so personal, even if others insult you directly, it has nothing to do with you. โฃ

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What they say, what they do, and the opinions they give are according to the agreements they have in their own mindsโ€ฆโฃ

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Taking things personally makes you easy prey for these predators, the black magicians. โฃ

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They can hook you easily with one little opinion and feed you whatever poison they want, and because you take it personally, you eat it upโ€ฆ.โฃ

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But if you do not take it personally, you are immune in the middle of hell. Immunity in the middle of hell is the gift of this agreement.โฃ


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