โฃWhat if I told you they arenโt. What if I told you that rudeness is just our ego creating ๐ท๐ช๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ๐ด and making us into ๐ท๐ช๐ค๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ด. โฃ
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๐ ๐๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ง๐๐๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ? โฃ
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Get this, the ego is a drama queen. It loves to portray a false sense of importance. It often plays out stories in our minds that the other human is out to get us. They are maliciously attempting to hurt usโฆ right? โฃ
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๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ด๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ค๐ฉ. โฃ
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You, me, and the stranger that commented on your choice of food when eating out, are all just operating unconsciously most of the time. We donโt know that we are repeating actions and judgements from our past experiences and belief systems. ๐ช๐ ๐๐จ๐งโ๐ญ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฃ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐๐๐ฌ ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ. We donโt know we are being rude.โฃ
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If you can appreciate that peopleโs โ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ด๐ดโ is just a reflection of how they feel about themselves, then you can choose to ๐๐๐ engage the ego and instead act from your higher self. โฃ
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Offering ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ข๐ด๐ด๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ช๐ณ ๐ฑ๐ข๐ช๐ฏ โ instead of judgment, often defuses a situation quickly. Choosing a response instead of reacting will always lead to a more beneficial outcome for all involved.
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