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Is Your Spouse Sabotaging Your Goals?

How many of you have been in a relationship (or are currently in one) where your partner didn’t want you to exercise, eat a certain way, or accomplish goals that you have?

It’s a red flag.

It indicates that your partner is insecure about you gaining self-confidence and becoming less codependent on them. It’s not a conscious action, but an unconscious belief.

Now, obviously we need to be realistic about setting goals, so some inquiry about why and how you have come to set a certain goal is normal. But the overall tone should be one of realistic inquiry rather than pessimistic dismissal.

Partners should support each other. You need to be real and ask yourself if you truly want to be in a relationship with someone who is constantly sabotaging your goals and efforts due to their insecurities.

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