• Briana Theroux

The Infamous Dirty Comments Women Get โ€” No I Am Not Talking Dick Picks & The Words That Follow...



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When weโ€™re looking at a personโ€™s life on the internet, weโ€™re only seeing their highlight reel. โฃ

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So please consider this ๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ, but ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค and ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ, idea when typing up your comment: ๐—œ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜†, ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด. โฃ

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Everyone knows I feel like a moulting bird over hereโ€ฆ I make jokes often about this and really Iโ€™m not emotionally disturbed by it โ€” itโ€™s amusing at this point due to my life history. But people still feel the ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ to point out on one or another social platform how they find my looks unattractive, and yes, this happens on the daily. โฃ

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I am more concerned with how this is impacting other ladies during this time, as many have not had the capacity, or time to renegotiate their beliefs around their body until now. โฃ

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You rarely know the nitty gritty details of a situation when commenting on a person's appearance. Therefore, a lot of body judgment commentary is made from assumptions about a person's well-being and health. You know they must be uber happy to be hot, so you must take them down ten pegs with your passive aggressive commentsโ€ฆ right? ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น, ๐—ป๐—ผ. You just cannot offer a complete opinion without all the details and this goes with much of life, not just this. โฃ

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Women go through great lengths to look their best on a regular basis. It is really not valid if you feel it is worth it or not, or if you think itโ€™s vain, or overly narcissistic. โฃ

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This pandemic has completely interfered with that. Do not comment on a womenโ€™s body or looks right now. โฃ

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๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ธ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต; ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ธ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„:โฃ

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  • Her relationship with foodโฃ

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  • Her relationship with her bodyโฃ

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  • Her stress load and coping mechanismsโฃ

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  • Her history of disordered behaviorsโฃ

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  • Her self-esteemโฃ

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You donโ€™t know anything about the women you judge during this time of critical re-evaluation for self-worth.โฃ

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You never know how someone feels about a part of their body, and calling attention to it could make them uncomfortable and spiral them into some extreme ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฎ they thought they had mastered. We are all under extreme stress currently and I would like to encourage everyone to offer compassion instead of your ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€. โฃ

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Also letโ€™s get one thing clearโ€ฆ Donโ€™t fucking ask if theyโ€™re sick, or tired, or pregnant. โฃ

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It might seem ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค, but doing so actually has judgmental undertones. Often, when women are asked this itโ€™s simply because theyโ€™re not wearing makeup or are a large dinner.โฃ

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